Lindsey Knott's Naughty Space

What is sub space? How does one get there?  Am I not functioning properly because I have never experienced it? These are questions that have been bouncing around in my head for a few weeks.  The Mr. and i have not been completely involved in the D/s world for long. Before we met each of us had admired from afar, but when we met someone who's dark kinky desires matched our own we decided it was time to take a leap. While we are very happy that we started the journey into this lifestyle together, we are running into the problem that neither of us has much experience. We have done so much reading and listening trying to soak it all in and one thing keeps popping up. SUB SPACE.   Could someone PLEASE help me figure out what it is, how to get there, or at least tell me I'm not less of a sub due to my lack of experiences? 

Master T has requested that i write about what being a slave means to me and what i like about it. To me, being a slave isn't just about making sure my Master is satisfied sexually. i like to make sure his life is easier. whether it's a small task like making his coffee for him, helping him make a more eye catching resume, running an errand that he doesn't want to do, or just simply making sure his house is clean. i like that i have this alternative method to show him how much i care. Another reason i like being a slave is at work i am the boss, in my social circles i am the one they all go to for guidance and direction, and at home i am the mommy who is in charge of making sure my children are taken care of. It's nice to put all that away and have my Master make the decisions. I view our relationship as something similar to a 50's marriage. He is the Master of the house, and i am here to support him in his responsibilities. -slave j