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Coming Home from a "Vanilla" Weekend

This past weekend Master, the kids, and i went to my grandparents to visit my extended family and have a little vacation. The hard part was none of my family knows about our choice to lead a BDSM lifestyle. Nor do I want them to due to their strict religious beliefs. So we couldn't act like Master and slave in any obvious ways. Which made for long weekend. By the time we got home we were both so ready for the ability to be ourselves it was nearly painful. I loved coming home and instantly feeling like Master T's slave again. He really didn't have to do anything to make me feel that way. The second I was in the door it was like our little sanctuary and we knew the roles we play and we just picked it up without missing a beat. The only downside is since the kids were all home up until we started our work week again Master hasn't had the chance to punish me for the wrong doings that were made before we left, we were both working opposite shifts until then, and while we wer

Welcome All 7/16/16

It is an interesting thing to be new in BDSM and to be new at blogging as well. I see in the statistics that people are coming to this blog and checking it out and I see they are coming from all over the world and I think that's very exciting.I would like to see some of the people checking this out to comment about what they think of the blog and what topics they would like to see put up. We made a public blog to see how other people run their relationship and maybe share ideas or just to learn more. We are currently trying to balance our BDSM  lives and our everyday lives together and researching different ways of doing so. If there is anyone else out there that does the same drop a comment and let us see how you do it. -Master T

Being a slave and what i like about it

Master T has requested that i write about what being a slave means to me and what i like about it. To me, being a slave isn't just about making sure my Master is satisfied sexually. i like to make sure his life is easier. whether it's a small task like making his coffee for him, helping him make a more eye catching resume, running an errand that he doesn't want to do, or just simply making sure his house is clean. i like that i have this alternative method to show him how much i care. Another reason i like being a slave is at work i am the boss, in my social circles i am the one they all go to for guidance and direction, and at home i am the mommy who is in charge of making sure my children are taken care of. It's nice to put all that away and have my Master make the decisions. I view our relationship as something similar to a 50's marriage. He is the Master of the house, and i am here to support him in his responsibilities. -slave j

The beginning

i won't lie, i was the one who planted this seed into our heads. Once upon a time when we first started dating, i got really drunk and may have mentioned that i have always been turned on by the idea of being dominated. More than that i always wanted to submit myself to the man i love and give him the prefect life. i wanted more than anything to be the "perfect" partner who makes her man's life easier in some ways. i sincerely hope that we are well on our way to that goal, but here is some of the hurdles and progress we make along the way. Hopefully we can help others and get help along our path. -slave j